AngeL vs DeviL for Dignity

Well, sometimes we find ourselves torn between an angel and a devil..

The angel will always tell us to do the righteous thing, but the devil will try to do the opposite...

When we are facing a problem, there must be voices that try to influence our actions. Sometimes we simply can not distinguish which is the angelic or demonic voice.

Angelic voice will always gives a solution to be a good person with all kindness,
but sometimes the solution just not in accordance with our personalities.

Yeahh...some people might say that "succumbing doesn't mean to lose", but sometimes "succumbing give others the chance to trample our pride".

Every people have dignity !!!

"We only live once, but once is enough if we do it right. Live your life with class, dignity, and style so that an exclamation, rather than a question mark signifies it!"
Gary Ryan Blair 

BUT...even so, we have to avoid high self-esteem as we will be judged arrogant and selfish.  

This life is hard....really hard...

If you are always forced to not be yourself (whether it be good or bad attitude according to others), one day you will feel very tired....especially when you're not a people's person..

I'm no saint at all...Trust me !!

If I am an angel then I'll be at heaven, not here in earth, living hell life as a human being with so many flaws...

This is just sad...

Some taught you to always "Be yourself" but if be yourself not according to their expectations, then they will be disappointed and offended...

Yeah, for me, there's a point where good and evil is objective.

Everyone must have a different perception depending on the point of view.

I remember watching the movie Grey's Anatomy where Dr. Christina Yang was asked to "ask politely" by Dr. Bailey and she replied "This is ME asking politely"

So, do you get the point here ?

Maybe, we just have to stop expect others to behave according to our will and respect their way of life.

Try to be more understanding so not to be offended

If we can do that, that everybody can "BE THEMSELVES" freely

If we can't do that then don't be a hypocrite...

"We need to give each other the space to grow, to be ourselves, to exercise our diversity. We need to give each other space so that we may both give and receive such beautiful things as ideas, openness, dignity, joy, healing, and inclusion."
Max de Pree